Going Grey Gracefully?

Have you ever thought about going grey, but were overwhelmed about how to do it and look good in the process?

Many women are going grey as a statement of independence and confidence. They are telling the world, “this is who I am, and I’m not afraid.” Many women who have gone grey say that they get more compliments from men, because their grey hair shows greater confidence.
it can be quite empowering to ditch the dye and go gray naturally.

Why do so many of us keep hitting the bottle?

For years I have been colouring my hair.  I seem to remember finding a grey hair in my teens, that’s when panic set it. Was I going prematurely grey?

Both my Grandmothers were grey at an early age, in fact my mother and Grandmother were white into their early sixties. Was there no hope for me? Did I inherit the grey/silver/white gene? I did what most of us do… hid in a bottle.

An original brunette but those dark shiny locks were long gone!

I had started with blonde highlights in my thirties and that was it, bit by bit my brunette locks were eradicated. The downward spiral had begun.

After, a trip to a well know hairstylists whom I had been gong to for quite sometime, I posed the question about going all out – grey. Oh the horror on the stylist’s face!

Then after having a cut, highlights and low lights and the bill of almost $250. I decided I had to do something about this. Gone were the days of colouring my hair myself, I seemed to be going for root touch ups on a monthly basis.

And then, I started networking…….what has this to do with Going Grey you may well ask?

I met at least 3 ladies whose hair was a variety of grey/white/silver shimmering shades, all natural, they looked so confident and gorgeous. I began to wander what my natural hair would look like.

I made a decision that by the time I turned 60 – (that was looming), I would embrace who I was and bite the bullet, no more bottle blonde.

I changed hairstylists, I managed to find a local hairstylist who actually listened to me.

I told her my plan and that I wanted as smooth a transition as possible. To her credit she looked at my hair, the verdict “You have amazing colours in your hair, it will be so beautiful.” To keep the transition smooth we decided a few highlights to blend in initially.

I have to say that the hair journey was smooth, better that I thought it would be. No coloured helmet (half grey-brown-blonde), no tide marks. It was obviously the right time for me.

A few months later.


Does this mean, new make-up and outfits (another post, another time)

I must say I was somewhat blown away by the result. A stylish cut and support from your hair dresser also helps.

My hair isn’t wiry, its soft and smooth with a colour combination of grey streaks and white/silver locks.



I have discovered myself, I am proud of who I am and I am embracing a confidence that I never had before.

Going Grey Expresses Your Individuality, so be bold, be adventurous, stand out from the crowd.

Society often attempts to dictate how we should look – but there also comes an age where you don’t give a flying toss what society thinks. Celebrities like Helen Mirren and Jamie Lee Curtis have happily embraced their lighter shade and look incredible. If its good enough for them, then what the hell!

Going Grey Gracefully?


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Home Improvements.

Home Improvements, Here we go again.

Before we can really get to grips with our back garden, we must sort out the outside of our home.

Having attracted an unwanted woodpecker, who obviously had eyes on drilling holes into our sidings, we thought we had better find a permanent deterrent. The sidings were the original ones from the 1980s when the house was built. We decided on Hardy Plank as a replacement. This is Fiber cement siding/cladding, it’s a building material used to cover the exterior of a building in both commercial and domestic applications. Fiber cement is a composite material made of sand, cement and cellulose fibers.

Out with the old, in with the new.

Sidings ripped


sidings getting theresidings nearly done

You can see the difference with bare boards prior to painting.

We chose Behr paint colour Grey Seas.


Of course one thing leads to another so the shutters around the front windows we changed from black to white to match the garage door. The front door we changed from Black to a Dark Green Sherwin Williams Resilience Country Squire.



So moving on to the next Project, which is …..replacing the deck.

We have a plan!

What projects are you undertaking right now?

Home Improvements. Here we go again!

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When Selling Your Home, What do you need to know?

When selling your home do you understand the needs of prospective buyers?

Who is likely to buy your house?


Is it going to appeal to an empty-nester, who want to downsize? or a first time buyer, a professional couple ready to set down roots, a young family relocating.

We don’t always know for certain who will buy your property, but it is very important that you appeal to the right market. This is a conversation to have with your Real Estate agent who will do the research buyer demographics – it is a science and can be complex, but, could make all the difference.

Once you can narrow it down somewhat you can also the define what potential buyers are looking for in their search. Why? So you can appeal to the right category of buyer.

Look at the comparables that your Realtor can provide you with. Visit open houses for ideas. Ask your Realtor to refer you to a Home Stager too.

Hiring a Home Stager can help you with creating a vision in your home for potential buyers using home staging techniques.

A Home Stager will focus on the good points in your home and enhance them while playing down the negative factors.


Statistics show that properly staged homes sell for as much as 17% above market value of a comparable unstaged property. A home valued at $250.000 would make an extra profit of around $42.000! That’s is huge.

It is a myth that Home Staging is expensive. A Home Stager can add value.

Hiring a Home Stager helps create that vision for the potential buyer.  Isn’t it worth finding out?

Home Staging

Did you know that home staging fees and associated expenses are also tax deductible?

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Selling Your Home? Before the For Sale Sign Goes Up, Here Are Some “Must Do’s”

Those of us who have moved house know how stressful it can be.

Selling and buying another property simultaneously can push your stress levels literally through the roof.

You maybe be contemplating a house move for a variety of reasons.

  • Grown out of your present home
  • Downsizing
  • Divorce
  • Change of Job
  • Retirement
  • To be nearer family
  • Just want a change

Where do you start?

Home for sale Real estate sign in front of new house

I work best from lists, this is a simple way to start, just keep adding to the list starting with the priorities.

Crossing something off your list means its been dealt with or its no longer a problem, therefore, progress has been made.

Engaging a Realtor that you trust and who understands you and where you are at is vital to begin with, interview them, ask questions.
Do you work full or part-time as a real estate agent?
How many homes have you sold in my neighborhood in the past year or two?
What aspects of the transaction will you personally handle and which will be delegated to others?
Can you give me a written CMA (Comparative Market Analysis) of homes for sale in this area?
Are your fees negotiable?
What is your advertising and marketing plan for my house?
Do you provide Home Staging Services? http://www.HabitatMuse.com

You must start thinking like a seller. CMA’s in your area will give you a good idea of the condition and price range of similar properties in your area. It may reveal that their are certain changes you will need to address in your property before that For Sale sign goes up.

Look objectively at your home, detach from it, that means de-personalize.
What are you required to do to make your home market ready?

Make a list of what it will cost to repair, paint, refresh, re-plant etc.
Go visit “Open Houses” for inspiration and ideas.
You may even consider undertaking a Home Inspection on your property. Laws, rules, codes and regulations change, address them before a buyer finds issues later when their Home Inspection is completed.
Do your due diligence.
Start work!

Exterior – First Impressions count!

  1. Sort out your yard/gardens – View from the curbside, what you see potential buyers will see.
  2. Cut  the grass and tidy the edges, cut down unruly shrubs, pull out the weeds, tidy the driveway.
  3. Pressure wash the outside of the house and garage, including windows and the back of the property.
  4. Repair and refresh outdoor paintwork including a coat of paint on the front door if it is looking dated.
  5. Repair guttering, a leaky roof, damp patches, cracked or damaged windows.
  6. Add a colorful planter to the front porch, if you have a larger area consider adding outdoor furniture (proportional to the size of the porch)
  7. Also consider smartening up a deck area – potential buyer are looking for outdoor spaces.

Giving house keys


Remember the golden rule “First Impressions count!

Follow my next post for tips on Selling Your Home – Must Do’s – Interiors

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A Home Stagers Toolbox.

A Home Stagers Toolbox.
What Do I Have in My Tool Box?

Being a Home Stager I keep a basic toolbox in my car 24/7.

Why? Because you never know what you might come across or need when staging a home.

I just keep it very basic

Measuring Tape – The essential tool for all Stagers. Why? A Stager needs to know the size of every area or room to place the right furnishings, therefore, maintaining a sense of proportion.
A small hammer and picture hooks to hang or re-position wall art. You may require the owner to have some touch up paint also.
Furniture gliders, they make moving furniture so much easier and less strain on the mover too.
Scissors, screwdrivers, a leveler, a Stanley knife, sanding blocks, tape, plastic ties, disposable gloves, shoe guards and a magic eraser (to remove scuff marks) are also additional items I carry.

Other essentials are a notebook and pen/pencil to jot down measurements, suggestions, must haves or general notes.

tool box
For an initial Consultation I would generally need writing materials, a colour palette or colour wheel and an open mind.

Color palette guide for printing industry isolated
There are software packages out there too, but this can be costly and distracting.
You want to develop a relationship with the seller, one of trust while remaining objective and supportive.  Sometimes comprehensive computer based tools can be distracting and impersonal.
Maybe I am old fashioned?
There is a place for technology certainly, but don’t forget first impressions count so keep it simple.

All set to go?
A Home Stagers Toolbox.
What Do I Have in My Tool Box?
Habitat Muse – Home Staging and Décor “Let your home stand out from the crowd”

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Current Home Decor Colour Trends 2018

Interior Fashion – Home Décor
There is no doubt that the fashion world and the catwalk influence home décor and design, from colour, prints, patterns and textures. Each season there is something that translates from the clothes rails of London, Paris, New York and Milan into our homes. Even paint manufacturers research globally for inspiration to bring to the table new trends.
Paint Colours for 2018
The word for 2018 is POWER.
Black, Red & Blue
These are the colours of POWER adopted by the major paint manufacturers.
Glidden Onyx – Black Ink. We are taking back the power of privacy and intimacy. Black is also the colour of sophistication. Think little black dress or a sexy tuxedo. 2018 is Powerful, Badass and Confident.
Imagine an accent wall or even a ceiling , dramatic, making a statement, bold.
Benjamin Moore chose Caliente as their colour for 2018. Red is another POWER colour. Red affects us on a physical level, increasing our heart rate and appetite. It’s the colour of passion and love. Think accent walls, accessories, wall art.
Sherwin Williams chose Oceanside Blue as their colour of 2018.A deep rich blue/green, innovative and full of energy whilst healing and tranquil. Rich Jewel tones. Picture ocean scenes, velvet drapes, throws and glassware.
Colour is back in a big way.

Glidden-Paint-2018-Color-of-the-Year-is-Deep-Onyx-1Benjamin Moore colour 2018 red


Take back the power of colour!

What is your style?

Current Home Decor Colour Trends 2018





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Habitat Muse: Home Staging & Decor Staging your home to sell? Tips on how to Dress a Bedroom?

Home Staging Colour Consultation & Décor
When it comes time to sell your home, first impressions count.
Your goal is to sell your property quickly at the best possible price. The goal of the potential buyer is to visualize living in your property with their own belongings around them.
Home staging is all about making the best of the space you have by enhancing its good points.

1. Start at the highest point first, that maybe the attic or the bedrooms.

2. Be ruthless, those heavy drapes that you have had in years, need to be boxed up, windows should allow natural light into the bedroom so clean them. Add sheers instead of drapes.

3. Clean thoroughly and vacuum the carpet or wipe over hardwoods.

4. Remove personal objects from the walls and night stands.

5. Repainting is an option if it hasn’t been refreshed in a while.

6. Identify the focal point of a room, it is usually the bed, although a master bedroom may have 2 focal points such as a fireplace and a bed or even a picture window. The eye should be drawn to the focal point in the room.

7. The bedroom should be clean, fresh and inviting.

You don’t have to invest a lot of money on a new bed set. Use plain white sheets and tuck over a duvet or comforter. Add a throw and a couple of pillows. These lamps were Ikea and very inexpensive. Repurpose from another room. Remember less is more. Accessorize a dresser or drawers with a table runner, a vase with fresh flowers.

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Habitat Muse – Home Staging and Decor

How to stage a bedroom.


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The Markay Gallery – Marietta Square. Home of Art & Design. Part Two

Luminaires of Art & Design. The Markay Gallery in Marietta arranged a Discussion panel to talk about Interior and Home Design, influences and trends. The panelists shared their perspective on each of their industries, how they connect and how we can use these concepts to LIVE SIMPLY IN 2018.

Expert Tips for Simplifying, Beautifying and Redefining at Home

Panel Amber Markay Byrd – Gallerist

Chris Lafaive -Rezide Properties

Cassandra Buckalew – Interior Designer

Lori May – Interior Designer

Stacy Milburn – Artist

Mary Jane Huegel – Artist

Lets take a look at the  artists and their unique creations.

First Stacy Milburn

She gravitates towards using mirror as her canvas. Stacy has mastered the art of using color within a mirror to ground a space and complement any interior. Designers and millwork artisans have also incorporated her works as paneling and backsplash elements. She also collaborates with photographers to create layers of silver over black and white abstract portraiture and architectural elements that etches the present over an image taken from the past. The effect is unexpected and timeless. She calls her pieces Mirrored Art.




Absolutely stunning .   The process is so intricate – removing the back of the mirror there are 3 layers of silver, copper and tin finer than a stand of hair! using etching, watermarking and complimenting patterns found in marble.

True statement pieces that bring light and weight into a room.

Mary Jane Huegel

Mary Jane pours her passion for beauty into her peaceful and colorful creations. She spent her childhood exploring the beautiful mountain scenery of Eastern Kentucky and her summers on the marshlands and seasides of Amelia Island, Florida. Her paintings reflect her vivid memories and impressions of how her mind made emotional connections to these wonderful precious memories. Mary Jane is continually captivated by the beauty of nature before her. Electrifying terrains, with such warm and vibrant colors, became the inspiration for her artistic expressions.

Her Portfolio of works include

  • Landscapes
  • Waterfalls
  • Still Life
  • Abstract
  • Figurative
  • Giclee Prints


Huegel shows her art work exclusively at Markay Gallery in Marietta, GA. and High Country Art and Antiques in Blue Ridge, GA. and Fern and Dina’s in Fernandina Beach/ Amelia Island, Florida.

“I find myself dancing between two worlds: a desire to show what I see … and or an emotional response to what could be in the spirit!”

MJ. Huegel

Amber Markay Byrd -Gallerist – Functional art for the home. Thinking off the wall.

Markay Gallery is the uptown gallery of Historic Marietta Square. This cozy corner has been energized by artistic variety.
A new gallery experience awaits, with a masterful mix of original fine art, functional art and luxe gifts for the home.

Markay Gallery

Stop by, its worth a visit.

Look out for Markay Masterclass, a series of workshops led by Markay Gallery artists. Learn different techniques with a variety of mediums. All experience are welcome.

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The Markay Gallery – Marietta Square. Home of Art & Design. Part One

Luminaries of Art & Design

Last weekend I had the pleasure to accompany my lovely friend Kathy Phillips of Project Style Interior Design to A panel Discussion at the newly opened Markay Gallery.

The topic. ‘Expert Tips for Simplifying, Beautifying & Redefining at Home”

The expert panelists shared their perspective on each of their respective industries to include; How they connect and how the concepts discussed can help us all to “Live Simply in the New Year.”

Panelists and Topics for Discussion:-

Chris Lafaive – Rezide Properties, (Home Builder)

Innovative home design. Fresh home trends with lasting power. How interior design & home design work together.

He explained about how new constructions were changing to “zero lot line”

Definition: A residential property built with at least wall of the structure adjoining the property line. In doing so, builders are able to create more livable space, either inside the house or in a patio area outside. Found in developments where neighborhoods clustered around larger common areas that replace the need for larger yard space. Also called narrow-lot homes. Creating the illusion of more space by using simple design and maximizing space without clutter and importantly keeping the cost down.

Building to a maximum of 2,400 sq ft. The use of glass, skylights, flooding the home with natural light, creating a small courtyard space, bringing the outdoors in including efficient under stairs storage.

Key Home Design Trends.

  • Smaller living spaces
  • Raised Ceiling height of around 10ft
  • The use of multiple textures – reclaimed wood, tile, stone, brick, open shelving, barn door
  • Colour of choice – White, Exterior & Interior.

How do Interior Design and Home Design work together? Start with an Interior Designer, then design the floor plan and furniture layout.

(obviously thirsty work presenting – bottles of water!)

Barn door



Cassandra Buckalew – Cassandra Buckalew Interiors, (Interior Designer)

Living with less to bring you more joy. Living with colour.

What needs to stay and what needs to go.

Recommended reading “The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up” by Maria Kondo. The Japanese art of decluttering and organizing. If it doesn’t create a space, get rid of it.

Elements and Principles of Design. Human factors and ergonomics. How are people viewing their environment?

Visual Volume Objects need space, less is more.

Create balance by object size, weight and colour, look for contrasting materials, their shapes and height. When it comes to redefining space in your home reimagine the rooms purpose, function and form.



Lori May. Lori May Interiors. (Interior Designer)

Redefining your space by reimagining its purpose. Fresh interior design trends with lasting power. Lori May is inspired by modern living, blending classic elements with modern elegance and chic style, she works hand in hand with Builders, and Contractors on new Construction as well as remodeling projects. Its all about the floor space, its function, form and purpose.





Chris and Lori have worked on many interior and home designs together, utilizing space effectively and creatively.

2018 is the year of colour but also space. redefining and refining.

The Markay Gallery – Marietta Square. Home of Art & Design. Part One

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A staple wardrobe piece. A Fashion Statement part 2

Fact: Every woman should have a few statement items in their wardrobe

Staple wardrobes pieces would include:-

The little black dress – so beautifully worn by Audrey Hepburn.


A mid heel Black patent court shoe

A tailored coat

A pair of black or pin striped tailored trousers

A crisp white blouse/shirt

A statement necklace or Pearls

A beautiful scarf, that can be worn with many outfits

A Black Leather handbag/shoulder bag.

A pair of Black Leather gloves

Timeless pieces that will work whether a casual outfit or dressed to impress.

What is missing?

How about A Kilt?

Subtle tartans or bold plaids. A perfect partner to add to your list that will fit in so well with other pieces described above.

Shopping for a kilt.

On a recent visit to Windsor, just opposite Windsor Castle (The Queen was not in residence), we found The Edinburgh Woollen Mill Shop

I had already looked online for a kilt, but decided that I really needed to try one on. Plus, there are so many variations in colours from the bold and vivid to the soft and warm.

I chose a below knee kilt that I can wear with a variety of tops and accessories. An added bonus – a reduced price.

Whether worn with flats, Heels, ankle boots or riding boots. Kilts are so stylish


Dress Shirt Style.

Shirt TK Maxx. Double side zip Boots – Vince Camuto


Smart and Sassy Style.

Boots as above. Shirt White House Black Market

dress up

Hunting bling Style.

Sweater with back tie detail, Banana Republic. Black Suede and Leather Riding Boots Anne Klein


Highland Fling style.

White shirt Marks and Spencer online, Shoes Clarks. Handbag Aspinal of London. Necklace Park Lane Jewelry. Velvet scarf/shawl vintage!


Fashion Statement Style.

Jacket Ann Taylor, Shoulder bag ASOS, Ladies Tweeds cap Edinburgh Woollen Mill. Suede Mink Boots Marks and Spencer

I chose this colour kilt as I was drawn to the muted colours. What could I pair it with that I already had in my closet?.

Lavender, grey/green, black and white are very sophisticated and warm colours that suit my style. So versatile and very appealing on the eye.

The clothes mentioned above that I paired in these photographs I have had in my closet a long time. Classic pieces that don’t date if treated with respect.

Which is your favourite outfit?

A staple wardrobe piece. A Fashion Statement part 2





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